Is your marriage sexless? Many people experience a sexless marriage. Physical and emotional intimacy are essential parts of building lasting relationships. Learn why this happens. Here are 7 reasons why your marriage maybe sexless.
Sexless Marriage
Is your marriage sexless? Many people experience a sexless marriage. Physical and emotional intimacy are essential parts of building lasting relationships. Learn why this happens. Here are 7 reasons why your marriage maybe sexless.
Married for 30 years to a sexual anorexic husband… and sex for me equals rejection, emotional abuse, being walled off and ignored. For the last 2 years he is in sobriety, more present, attentive, appreciative and willing to heal the physical side of our marriage but I can’t go there. What is sex? There must be something about sex that makes the world go crazy about it. I was never sexually awakened … and I don’t know what to do. I might be accused of being sexual anorexic too… but I can remember the loneliness, the heartache, not knowing what was going on. I remember the day a few years into our marriage I decided by an act of my will I was going to change my expectation about having a sexual relationship with my husband and he became to me like a husband sitting “paralysed in a wheal chair” except when he could be sexual with himself and virtual brides and other women hanging on poles and waiting in windows.. I know I am shattered in my sexuality through my husband’s porn addiction and Sexual anorexia. Am I a sexual anorexic too? No. I suffered emotional abuse and physical abuse. Am I condependent? No I am not. I am traumatised. Why did I not walk away? I experience trauma bonding with the person who was supposed to love me and enjoy me It hurts.
Great video clip! My wife of 19yrs feels that she has every right to have tossed me into the prison cell of celibacy.
1 Corinthians 7:1-5 does not seem to have any effect upon her spirit? Non biblical excuses for cutting us off from sexual intimacy are well recorded in her rolodex of wrongs that she holds against me? Tragic & very sad.
Having a weak and non biblical application marriage counselor has not helped in the trial of a messy marriage mishap. Trusting God BIG TIME on this one!