Infidelity Counseling


Infidelity Counseling: What We Do

Our infidelity counseling sessions are for anyone working through unfaithfulness, extra-marital affairs, adultery and being cheated on. Finding out that your partner or spouse has been unfaithful to you is devastating. Our licensed counselors help you recover from the shock of the unfaithfulness and find hope in the devastation.

Infidelity occurs when a person is unfaithful to their partner or spouse in a relationship where exclusivity is expected. This issue is not just related or limited to physical relationships. Infidelity can happen on different levels including emotional and relational levels and across different mediums including physical, virtual reality and online.

Physical infidelity most often involves pursing intimacy, affection and sexual relationships outside of a monogamous relationship or marriage. Finding out that your partner or spouse has cheated on you physically can make you feel dirty, unwanted, and unloved.

Emotional infidelity is based on creating emotional connections to other people outside of a monogamous relationship or marriage. This type of unfaithfulness can take the form of emotionally bonding, sharing secrets, discussing deeply personal subjects, and spending inordinate amounts of time with another person.

Relational infidelity is the act of creating relationships that are more important than a partner or spouse’s relationship. It involves placing emphasis on taking care of that other relationship and placing their needs above the needs of your partner or spouse.

Infidelity does not have to end your relationship. By remaining committed to each other and by working together, you and your partner can recover your relationship and rebuild your intimacy. Our counselors can work with you together and separately to make sure all of the underlying issues, concerns, and emotions are addressed.


We have over thirty years of experience helping relationships heal, addressing unfaithfulness and providing couples counseling at Heart to Heart Counseling Center.  Visit our Testimonials Page to read reviews from our clients who have successfully recovered from betrayal through our counseling programs.

Infidelity Counseling

Our infidelity counseling sessions help you understand the type of unfaithfulness in your relationship, know the depth of infidelity through disclosure and begin the road to recovery. These counseling sessions are scheduled by the hour.

Our licensed counselors specifically focus on:

  • Understanding the type of unfaithfulness you are experiencing.
  • Validating your pain and emotions.
  • Working through the phases of infidelity disclosure.
  • Providing an outlet for your emotions and feelings.
  • Working with you and your partner or spouse.
  • Recovering and rebuilding together.
  • Making your new relationship stronger and more intimate.

Infidelity Intensives

Infidelity is a sign that larger issues are affecting your relationship. Our Intensive program is focused on couples and individuals who are dealing with problems like infidelity, unfaithfulness, sex addiction, a lack of intimacy and more. The intensives are 3 or 5 days long. They include a full treatment program with three daily counseling sessions with Dr. Doug Weiss or one of our licensed counselors trained by Dr. Doug, access to our recovery DVDs and materials, anger work, polygraph testing opportunities and more. Give your relationship the best chance of recovery through our intensive treatment program.

Schedule Your Infidelity Counseling Session!

Our licensed counselors are waiting to help you recover from betrayal.
Call us at 719-278-3708 or email us at Or visit us in Colorado Springs, Colorado.

Recovering Unfaithful Relationships

There are two relationship roads you can walk when you discover infidelity. You can choose to walk away, abandon the person you love, and leave everything behind or you can choose to recover, stand strong in your love and rebuild your relationship in a way that is better and stronger than before.

We have seen thousands of relationships heal over the years and have discovered a simple truth. If you choose to rebuild, it will be hard. There are days when you will ask yourself why you are doing it and why it hurts so much, but it is worth it in the end. Our counselors can help you see that your relationship is worth saving and that your best days and memories are still to come.