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The Heart to Heart Blog

Dealing With Grief

By Doug Weiss | April 11, 2019

Watch this video on grief or read the blog post below. You know as humans…

Who Should I Marry? Being Different Vs Similar

By Doug Weiss | February 11, 2019

H. Jackson Brown, Jr. once said, “Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision…

Intimacy Makes Sex Better

By Doug Weiss | January 10, 2019

We have three dimensions – body, soul, and spirit. Intimate sex is the highest experience…

Becoming a Sexually Successful Man

By Doug Weiss | June 1, 2018

I believe that God wants every Christian man to be sexually successful. He desires all…

Why is he so immature?

By Doug Weiss | April 27, 2018

I have noticed many of you post over the last couple of months and I…

When the Devil Talks About Your Wife

By Doug Weiss | August 8, 2017

I remember one day, probably over ten years ago, I was driving home from work.…

A Porn Free Staff

By Doug Weiss | August 3, 2017

Porn is probably the fastest growing problem in the church. When speaking at my Sex,…

A Clear Head in Bed

By Doug Weiss | July 31, 2017

The issue of “fantasy” came up recently during a conversation with a Christian man that…

Believing Behavior

By Doug Weiss | July 23, 2017

Unfortunately, sexual addiction is growing rampantly across our nation. Men are viewing porn at greater…

Called to Marriage

By Doug Weiss | July 22, 2017

When you hear a young man or woman say, “I’m called,” what images come to…

my life as an addiction counselor

My Life as an Addiction Counselor

By Doug Weiss | February 24, 2016

In almost thirty years of counseling, I have found one thing to be true: life can…



By Doug Weiss | February 15, 2016

Abandonment is a form of emotional abuse. Meet another couple—Marty and Charise. Marty and Charise…

My Love Letter - A Marriage Exercise

My Love Letter – A Marriage Exercise

By Doug Weiss | February 8, 2016

This is a fun exercise. If you are spontaneous and creative, you might like to…

What Is Controlling You

What is Controlling You?

By Doug Weiss | February 2, 2016

As human beings, we all have our stories to tell. Like Barb, you may be…

pray for you

Pray for You

By Doug Weiss | January 29, 2016

Prayer is a very important weapon to have in your arsenal. Prayer has a way…

willingness matters

Willingness Matters

By Doug Weiss | January 29, 2016

Lust is an enemy and is on the other team. Lust is 100 percent willing…

a dirty war declared

A Dirty War Declared

By Doug Weiss | January 29, 2016

There was a day, not so long ago, when men were sexually pure. There was…

neurological conditioning

Neurological Conditioning

By Doug Weiss | January 29, 2016

Most of us are familiar with the story of Pavlov’s dog. You may have learned…



By Doug Weiss | January 29, 2016

My son plays sports. I’ve realized that sports are a good illustration of life in…

Beginning of a Long Journey

Beginning of a Long Journey

By Doug Weiss | January 29, 2016

I believe we are in the early stages of understanding sex addiction in our culture.…



By Doug Weiss | January 21, 2016

Owning is a concept where you must realize where you are currently before you start…

more is better

More is Better

By Doug Weiss | January 19, 2016

Lust is an absolute liar! It is conniving and out to destroy you, your family…