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The Heart to Heart Blog

Dealing With Grief

By Doug Weiss | April 11, 2019

Watch this video on grief or read the blog post below. You know as humans…

Who Should I Marry? Being Different Vs Similar

By Doug Weiss | February 11, 2019

H. Jackson Brown, Jr. once said, “Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision…

Intimacy Makes Sex Better

By Doug Weiss | January 10, 2019

We have three dimensions – body, soul, and spirit. Intimate sex is the highest experience…

Becoming a Sexually Successful Man

By Doug Weiss | June 1, 2018

I believe that God wants every Christian man to be sexually successful. He desires all…

Why is he so immature?

By Doug Weiss | April 27, 2018

I have noticed many of you post over the last couple of months and I…

When the Devil Talks About Your Wife

By Doug Weiss | August 8, 2017

I remember one day, probably over ten years ago, I was driving home from work.…

A Porn Free Staff

By Doug Weiss | August 3, 2017

Porn is probably the fastest growing problem in the church. When speaking at my Sex,…

A Clear Head in Bed

By Doug Weiss | July 31, 2017

The issue of “fantasy” came up recently during a conversation with a Christian man that…

Believing Behavior

By Doug Weiss | July 23, 2017

Unfortunately, sexual addiction is growing rampantly across our nation. Men are viewing porn at greater…

Called to Marriage

By Doug Weiss | July 22, 2017

When you hear a young man or woman say, “I’m called,” what images come to…



By Doug Weiss | April 19, 2016

Men were created to protect. We were created to stand against one thing and to…

sexless marriage

Sexless Marriage

By Doug Weiss | April 15, 2016

Is your marriage sexless? Many people experience a sexless marriage. Physical and emotional intimacy are…

Touch Deprivation in Marriage

Touch Deprivation in Marriage

By Doug Weiss | April 5, 2016

Touch deprivation is real and active today in Christian marriages. For some couples the only…

does your spouse have intimacy anorexia

Does Your Spouse Have Intimacy Anorexia?

By Doug Weiss | April 1, 2016

Excitement fills your heart when you prepare to marry the one you love. Maybe you fantasized…

Upgrade Your Sex Life

Upgrade Your Sex Life

By Doug Weiss | March 31, 2016

If you’re having sex, why not making it amazing? Once you know your partners sex…

How to Make your Marriage Stronger in 3 Daily Steps

How to Make your Marriage Stronger in 3 Daily Steps

By Doug Weiss | March 31, 2016

As a couple, prayer is an absolute necessity to have active in your marriage. I…

emotional based marriage

Emotional Based Marriage

By Doug Weiss | March 22, 2016

Something I have repeatedly seen sabotage a couple’s intimacy and I call it the “emotion-based…

fighting for your sex

Fighting for Your Sex

By Doug Weiss | March 15, 2016

Hi, my name is Doug. I’m nineteen. I am a new Christian and a sex…

how to quit porn

How to Quit Porn

By Doug Weiss | March 8, 2016

The first part to quitting porn is you really have to want to quit. You…

true voyeurism

True Voyeurism

By Doug Weiss | March 8, 2016

American men have been dumbed down in many ways by the mainstream media. For instance,…

accountability to my wife

Accountability to My Wife?

By Doug Weiss | March 8, 2016

Steve came into our counseling office because he had a secret world of pornography, masturbation…



By Doug Weiss | March 4, 2016

From the beginning of my more than twenty years in counseling men who are trying…