Do you feel broken, trapped or betrayed by sexual addiction or intimacy anorexia?
You are not alone. We are here to help you and will guide you through your relationship crisis.
Your road to healing and new life starts at Heart to Heart Counseling Center.

Heart to Heart Counseling Center specializes in sexual addiction counseling, treating intimacy anorexia and supporting partners, as well as marital counseling and healing. We are the premiere relationship counseling center in Colorado Springs, Colorado.

For over thirty years, we have helped relationships heal after dealing with sex addiction and intimacy anorexia, brought husbands and wives back together and helped couples find their intimacy again. We change lives.

Dr. Doug Weiss, the founder and executive director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center, is a nationally recognized psychologist and sexual addiction expert who coined the term intimacy anorexia almost a decade ago. Dr. Weiss has dedicated his life to help others understand sexual addiction and intimacy anorexia, provided quality training for counselors around the world and continues to use his expertise to heal marriages.

Our hope is to provide you with healing and tools to transform your life. Our mission is to rebuild your relationships and make them stronger and better than ever before. Our counseling and intensive programs will help you heal and begin to live the life you were intended to live.

New Releases

Narcissism, Sex Addiction and Intimacy Anorexia

The profound information that you will learn in this DVD will help you fairly evaluate your specific situation for narcissism, which will help you develop a treatment plan to address the issue you are dealing with at its core. Having this clarity can help expedite the healing process for the sex addict, intimacy anorexic, and the spouse, as they are able to tackle the real issue at hand.

Boundaries DVD

Boundaries are a healthy, normal, and necessary part of the recovery process for sex addicts, intimacy anorexics, and their spouses. Implementing boundaries in a relationship may seem difficult, but with the proper tools and guidance, you can successfully introduce and implement boundaries in your relationship. In this DVD set, Dr. Doug Weiss provides an answer to the clarion call on boundaries by educating and guiding you through this process.

Disclosure DVD

Disclosure is one of the most important topics in sexual addiction recovery. In this DVD, Dr. Weiss discusses the various types of disclosure. Each type of disclosure is for a specific purpose or person. This information can help the addict and the spouse navigate these often uncharted and misguided waters, saving the addict and the spouse from unnecessary pain or trauma. This DVD can expedite the understanding of each of the significant processes of disclosure for the addict, the spouse, and the marriage.

Pain For Love DVD

Pain For Love describes in detail one of the most insidious strategies of an intimacy anorexic with their spouse.  Dr. Weiss exposes the intentionality of maintaining a pain exchange for a spouse to receive love from the intimacy anorexic.  This dynamic is experienced by many who are married to an intimacy anorexic.  This paradigm can empower the spouse and help them stop participating in a pain for love dynamic in their marriage.

Healing Her Heart After Relapse DVD

Relapse doesn’t have to occur, but if it happens, knowing how to navigate it intelligently can make a huge difference in a marriage. Each relapse impacts the wife significantly. This DVD is way more than, “He relapses, he does a consequence and moves on.” The addict is given real tools to address the emotional damage and repair of her heart as a result of a relapse.

Sin Of Withholding DVD

The Sin of Withholding is often undetected and not preached about, but it is responded to by God in a consistent and firm manner. This DVD is the first to address the Biblical foundation of the sin of withholding in believers’ hearts. The practical application in marriage addressing Intimacy Anorexia is also interwoven in this revelational teaching on the Sin of Withholding. Once a believer is free of this sin, their walk with the Lord and their fruit towards others can increase expediently.

Partner Betrayal Trauma ™ DVD

Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he tackles the issue of Partner Betrayal Trauma ™. This is a unique type of trauma that is specific to your situation and relationship. It can contribute to secondary effects like PTSD, health problems, and depression.

Partner Betrayal Trauma ™

Book, Workbook, and Steps Book

The Partner Betrayal Trauma ™ helps you understand the broken trust and trauma you have experienced in your relationship or marriage.

Partner Betrayal Trauma ™ is a real type of trauma. Your pain and experience of betrayal has impacted all of your being and all of your relationships.

Dr Doug at Heart to Heart Counseling Center



Our Intensive Program

Our three and five day intensives are the pinnacle of excellence in sex addiction counseling. Our sex addiction intensives, with Dr. Weiss or one of his trained counselors, offer real solutions for individuals and couples who are struggling with sex addiction or intimacy anorexia and are designed specifically for where you are in your relationship and in the recovery process.

Your recovery and healing will be dramatically increased by our intensives. You will leave with an expert understanding of your sex addiction or intimacy anorexia problems, and you will develop an excellent recovery plan for the future as well as create opportunities for ongoing support.

Schedule Your Intensive or Counseling Appointment Now!

Call us now for more information on our 3 and 5 day intensives and counseling.
Call 719-278-3708 or email us at [email protected]

Our Counseling Services

Our counseling sessions are focused on those healing from sexual addiction and intimacy anorexia and their partners. We also provide relationship, marriage, family other other types of counseling. We offer specialized counseling sessions for individuals, couples, spouses or partners, teenagers, families, pastors and ministry leaders.

Our counseling services give individuals a personal treatment plan for successful healing. For couples, our counselors help them navigate through the critical phases of disclosure, move into the process of recovery and rebuild trust in their relationship. We help spouses and partners work through their loss, understand their emotions and reveal the "why" behind the behavior.

We have helped thousands of couples rebuild their relationships, renew their intimacy and maintain a healthy connection with their partner after completing our program.

Our Mission At Heart to Heart Counseling Center:

Healing The Broken Hearted


The GamePlan App

This app is specific for men struggling with Sex Addiction and Intimacy Anorexia. Content will be added regularly, with direct access to our latest, videos, blogs and daily tips to help you through your recovery journey as well as access to our current YouVersion bible studies and App exclusive recovery studies. Learn more about The GamePlan.


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What Our Clients Say:

"Not knowing what to expect, my husband and I were blown away by the caring, the detail and the plan to go forward, that we received after 3 intense days at Heart to Heart. I would recommend this center to ANYONE needing freedom and recovery for the many issues that come up in a marriage!"

-A.W., Kansas

"This intensive marked the first time I have been one hundred percent honest with myself, my wife and God about my addiction. The fact that I’m leaving with a concrete action plan with consequences for inaction or breaking any part of the plan gives me confidence that I will be able to succeed with God’s help."

- J.L., Colorado

"Before coming here I did not realize just how much I still needed to recover from everything. I learned so much from the sessions with Dr. Weiss and I feel like I’m now going home without the massive weight that I’ve been carrying around. I felt like we were coming here more for my husband and his issues but this week has unexpectedly been equally about me."

- S.H., California

Heart to Heart Blog

Betrayal – The Great Internal Human Trauma

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Dealing With Grief

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Who Should I Marry? Being Different Vs Similar

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Intimacy Makes Sex Better

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Becoming a Sexually Successful Man

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Why is he so immature?

I have noticed many of you post over the last couple of months and I…

When the Devil Talks About Your Wife

I remember one day, probably over ten years ago, I was driving home from work.…

A Porn Free Staff

Porn is probably the fastest growing problem in the church. When speaking at my Sex,…

A Clear Head in Bed

The issue of “fantasy” came up recently during a conversation with a Christian man that…

Believing Behavior

Unfortunately, sexual addiction is growing rampantly across our nation. Men are viewing porn at greater…