Category: Lust Free Living

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Your Children

Lust is deceptive. It deceives you into thinking you aren’t hurting your children when you lust. That concept is a lie. I remember receiving an email from a woman in Africa who shared that her husband was a massive cheater, and that her daughter was going down the same road and had multiple affairs. She…



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Triggers

Most of you have had a pet growing up (usually a dog). As a boy, when you got a dog, what was one of the first things you wanted to do with it? Most boys want to train their dog to do tricks. Once you had your dog trained, you would show your friends and…



BATTLE OF LUST

In the Moment

The battle of lust is in the moment. The minute you choose to objectify a daughter of God, you become tempted to use reflexive reactions of minimization or denial in order to protect lust. It is critical to create a new reflex for the times you find yourself “in the moment.” I advocate a technique…



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5 Years Free

Lust takes immediate opportunities to utilize its services. In this tip I want you to imagine what your life would be like if you were successful over lust for a day, then a week, then a month, and then a year. Finally, I want you to take a few minutes and imagine your life completely…



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Media Budget

Life is full of limitations. In order to manage these limitations, many of us budget ourselves to be successful. If you want to be financially successful, it’s best if you have a budget to help you identify what you have to do, what you have to spend to meet needs, and what you need to…



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Lust is an Opportunist

Lust is an opportunist. Another lie that lust leads you to believe is that you are to take advantage of every opportunity to lust. Lust likes to convince you to stroll through an area to look for women and images, or to allow fantasy because you have an opportunity. Lust tells you the lie that…



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Fear God

Lust’s natural enemy is the fear of the Lord.  This is a very practical tip, not one full of religious doctrine. Contemporary Christianity has forsaken the whole idea of fearing God, embracing only God’s love for us. If you had a father who was a manly man raise you, he was there to help you…



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Protected

Men were created to protect.  We were created to stand against one thing and to stand for something.  When you are in a protecting posture there are behaviors that support this. In battle you put on your gear, carry your weapons, fight the enemy and capture to protect freedom.  If you were to look solely…