It’s not Your Fault
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Say these words aloud with me: “It’s not my fault.”  Take these words in.  Really take them in.  Then, take the deepest sigh of relief you’ve ever taken.   You are not in any way responsible for the fact that your spouse chose to be an intimacy anorexic. For as long as you can remember,

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Low Self Esteem in Partners
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Low self-esteem is an issue for many partners of sex addicts. The clinical community has agonized over this issue for more than a decade. It is common for clinicians to hear statements from partners of sex addicts reflecting their low self-esteem. Some of these statements are printed below. • Who will love me now? •

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Believing Behavior
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Sexual addiction is growing rampantly across our nation. Men are viewing porn at greater rates than at any other time in history. The effect on our culture because of this growing epidemic of sexual addiction is immeasurable. The silent pain that partners of sex addicts experience day after day because of his addiction has not

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37 Million Mrs. Duggars Need Help
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There are millions of women who have been devastated by the recent Ashley Madison hack. I have worked with many of these women for over twenty-five years. Let me explain to you how they feel and what they need for themselves and from their friends. She is in extreme pain! She did not cause this. She

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The Ashley Madison Wives: What About Mrs. Anna Duggar?
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What about the wives of all of those men who were caught after a hacker released millions of email addresses to the Internet? What about Mrs. Anna Duggar? Anna Duggar has been married to Josh Duggar since 2008. Both have been in the public light their entire relationship long. Now, they are faced with Josh

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Effects on the spouse
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effects on the spouse

When a man chooses an unclean lifestyle of secret lust, pornography, or other sexually inappropriate behaviors he might think that what his wife doesn’t know won’t hurt her. Nothing is further from the truth. As Christians, we believe when we get married, two become one. God’s final creation in the garden was marriage. Yet our

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Marital Kryptonite #3 Addictions
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marital kryptonite Addictions

Clem and Marta were happily married for more than thirty years. They had raised their children and enjoyed a pretty affluent lifestyle. Marta believed everything was going great until the day she received “the call.” Marta’s car needed to go to the dealer for something and Clem said he would take care of it. Marta

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Why Won’t They Love Me
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Another nice couple walks into my office. They are both professionals, attractive, intelligent, have two children and look pretty normal. The problem is that they are living a different life than they portray on the outside. Their secret is that they are not loved by each other and although they are married, the spouse often

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Are the lies of worthlessness nagging your soul?

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Fruits of the Spirit in Marriage – Part Three

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Top 5 Tips to Help Maintain Sexual Integrity

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Fruits of the Spirit in Marriage – Joy and Patience

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Fruits of the Spirit in Marriage – Love

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