Why Won’t They Love Me?
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  Again, another nice couple walks into my office.  They are both professionals, attractive, intelligent, have two children, and look pretty normal.  The problem is that they are living a different life than they portray on the outside.  No, they aren’t double agents or swingers, but they are living a lie. Their secret is that

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Money In Marriage
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money in marriage

We all bring into our marriages the financial influences from our family of origin. I want to make it clear that we cannot blame our families for our financial problems. Like everything else, being financially responsible is a skill we can learn. It is important to work together with your spouse to uncover each of

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Overcoming Emotional Constipation and Internal Anger
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Emotions are complicated. If they only have a few outlets, it can cause what I call “emotional constipation.” Emotional constipation is when a person has many more feelings than he or she has the skills to express or identify. This constipation will show itself differently in various people. Some fly into rages, while others pout

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How To Serve Your Spouse
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  The place where we exist is an amazing thing. Your spouse is another wonderful creation existing in this space. I believe it is our privilege and calling to, over the course of our entire lives, get to know and learn about the unique creature our spouses are, as they evolve throughout our servant marriage.

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Is Your Marriage Based on Emotion?
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Do you and your spouse lack intimacy in your marriage? Or feel like financial decisions are being made without understanding why? If one or both of you feel your relationship is unfulfilling or confusing in any way, you might have an emotion-based marriage. There are two types of emotion-based marriages: benign and malignant. One example

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Who’s Governing Your Marriage?
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Do you and your spouse have a principle of agreement on how to get things done? If you don’t know, or if you think you know, test your answer with this hypothetical scenario. You both are looking to buy a car. How do you come to an agreement on the model, color, insurance, and maintenance

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How To Achieve Spiritual Intimacy In Your Marriage
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God is a romantic, and He is definitely interested in the issue of intimacy. Without God, intimacy is short-lived and incomplete. Even if it were possible for a husband and wife to achieve emotional and physical intimacy, their lives would feel incomplete without spiritual intimacy—living as individuals and as a couple in relationship with the

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Three Things To Do For Your Marriage Daily
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Throughout my years of counseling, I have discovered that many marriages lack structures to encourage intimacy. We grow up believing that one day we will get married and live happily ever after. We enter marriage ill-equipped for intimacy and are disappointed when our husband or wife doesn’t possess the secret code to intimacy either. Americans

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Grief In A Servant Marriage
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Serving is our spiritual bodybuilding, and marriage is the gym in which we train. Indeed, a marriage where each person considers the other person’s day, their heart, and their needs on a consistent basis, is what God envisioned when He created it. That said, accepting a servant role can go against current and comfortable beliefs,

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Is Your Marriage Hot Or Cold?
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Marriage is a lifetime commitment and within that lifetime are countless days that, after a while, begin to blur together. As this time passes, it’s easy to let your marriage become a routine and your spouse become the person you live with. You may get caught up in the endless busyness that comes with each

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Douglas Weiss, Ph.D. As the Executive Director at Heart to Heart Counseling Center, Dr. Douglas Weiss has been successfully counseling hurting hearts and relationships for more than 20 years.



Why Won’t They Love Me?

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